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How to Not Take Someone for Granted
Some of the best people are also the easiest to take for granted. They are always there for us when we need them, always picking up after us, helping us through difficult times, or simply doing all the work with none of the glory. And because these kinds of people are often selfless and humble on top of all their other great qualities, they can go unnoticed more easily than the more diva-like people we all know.
The good news is, you can avoid taking these great people for granted. Whether it be your spouse, a friend, a colleague or a teacher — here are a few ways to show your appreciation for someone.
Stop Talking About Yourself for a Minute
We’re usually thinking about ourselves. It’s no wonder, then, why we like to talk about ourselves a lot, too. If you find there’s someone in your life always doing the listening, then chances are you are taking that person for granted. The way to counter this is actually pretty simple and straightforward. Just stop talking about yourself, even if for just a moment. Or simply ask a question about how the other person is doing. By directing your mental energy towards listening and asking questions, you’ll not only help them feel interested in, it will help you pay more attention to them in the future.
